I finally got a sign~
I just wanted to share this anecdote and picture with you guys.
I was at Borders with my good friend, when we spotted a pad that had been written upon. Somebody had (quite artistically) drawn “I ♥ Sex” all over the page. In the corner of the page, we also saw that somebody had written “Jesus Christ is Lord! =)”
My friend knew just what to do.
“Jesus ♥ Sex, 2!”
And this is why I love my friend.
I’m clearly not stopping that whole “bad pun” titles thing. But if I did, would it truly be me?
(Other potential title: “The other burning bush.”)
It seems like the topic of porn (and delicious, wonderful sex, in a kind-of-related way) has come up a lot in my life lately. A lot of people like to ask me what my opinions of pornography are, probably because I am a woman, and I am a feminist, and I am vaguely interesting to speak to (or something like that). I have some feminist friends (including males, who people forget can be feminists, too) who are staunchly against pornography, feeling that it is deeply against every feminist ideal. I also have many friends, feminist and non-feminist alike, who are not anti-pornography in any way. In fact, my sister and her fiancé met at work- in an “adult bookstore.” In fact, I spent some of the best days while I was eighteen in that bookstore, testing out products and learning about the industry.
Similarly, I do know more than one person who I am close to who has become addicted to pornography. I also know plenty of people who are casual (healthy?) watchers of pornography, and I, of course, know many people who have said that they either have never watched any pornography or have no desire to watch it any more.
Of course, none of this says anything about myself.
(There is TMI information from this moment on, just in case anybody who is my friend in real life or otherwise is incredibly uninterested in learning about my relationship with porn- my intimate relationship, that is.)
Anybody still reading?
Anyway. As for myself, I think that I would fall into the average category of pornography watchers. That is to say that I am a porn consumer perhaps once a week. Interestingly enough, when I do watch pornography, I generally prefer to watch either the lesbian or gay kind (I told you all that I love the gays!). Additionally, I do enjoy to read erotica, if the mood strikes me, but reading erotica is almost never accompanied by masturbation.
(Anybody skipping that section of intimate details can go ahead and continue reading right about here.)
The one thing that I will say about pornography, my single caveat if you will, is that I feel there should be more regulations in the industry in terms of making every male performer wear a condom.
Clearly, any person who reads, watches, listens to, or otherwise voyeurs upon any kind of fictional erotic scene is a sinner, in the eyes of an Abrahamic tradition‘s text. (Hilarious to me, as Song of Songs/Soloman always came off to me as porn for Jewish people/Christians.) But that’s the thing- I’ve never heard of anybody who has a problem with pornography who isn’t religious or spiritual in some way or another, leading me to think that the only people who find guilt in porn are those who feel, in their body, that is it a “sin.” (That isn’t to say that there aren’t non-religious people who have problems with pornography. If you are such a person, please leave a comment and explain your point of view, because it would be so amazing to hear it.) Personally, when I was still religious, I felt a great deal of guilt when I would read/watch anything pornographic, and so I can understand this viewpoint. I remember once we were supposed to write down our biggest sin, and I wrote down that I read erotica. Only now can I see that exploring these things is an important part of adolescence and, I would even say, a good way to help people learn more about themselves.
Is pornography especially realistic? Not usually. (On a side-note, I would like to say that, in my personal opinion, the average porn user tends to not only watch the pornography that includes positions/acts they would like to try out one day, but that they also watch genres that they would never reenact in real life. For example, I would probably never have sex with a girl, but I have no problem watching two girls have sex.)
Can it demean women? Certainly it can, in the hands of the wrong producer or performer.
But is it fun? Well, isn’t that what it’s supposed to be?
Now if you’ll excuse me, I have an Incognito Window to open. Winky face.
You learn something new every day!
I stumbled across this post on a friend’s Facebook page the other day:
”Someone has written that people use Xmas and it means Xhaustion, Xcuses, Xchanges, Xcesses, Xtravagances, Xasperations, Xhibitions and worldly Xcitement. How much better to make the Lord the very center of our Christmas observance. Keep Christ in Christmas!”
In a comment, somebody left a link to a page explaining that the “X” in “Xmas” actually is representative of the symbol for the abbreviation for “Christ.” I looked to Wikipedia (naturally) to back this information up.
In Greek, the letter Χ (chi), is the first letter of Christ, and it, or the similar Roman letter X, has been used as an abbreviation for Christ since the mid-16th century. Hence, Xmas is sometimes used as an abbreviation for Christmas. -Wikipedia article “Christmas“
I know I’m a bad person, but considering all of the crap that I hear every year about “don’t take the ‘Christ’ out of ‘Christmas’,” I lol’d.
As my boyfriend said, “Merry Jesus Christ Savior Day of Joy and Good Will of Amazing Joy, Joy, Good.”
Anybody who is friends with me on Facebook already knows this, but it definitely bears repeating:
Yesterday, I was listening to a sermon given by Kirk Cameron at the church that I grew up going to, Immanuel Baptist Church. The sermon itself was making me laugh, as it seemed as though half of the sermon was centered around himself. (He actually make the audience sing the Growing Pains theme song, and then went on to base his sermon around his character from his movie Fireproof.) And then, he said the magic words, after speaking about how his character had an addiction to internet pornography:
Transfer your love and affection and all of your energy and devotion to something much greater than an electronic whore on a flatscreen.
As my brother-in-law pointed out, the definition of a whore should be “anybody who sells their body for money,” which kind of makes Kirk Cameron a whore. A whore for Jesus, which is the classiest kind of whore, I think.
(p.s. Sorry for this being such a shitty blog entry.)
(p.p.s. This inspired me to start a Tumblr.)